Will Smith has confirmed one of the worst-kept secrets in Hollywood: he and wife, Jada, have an open relationship.

“Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people,” he told Reveal magazine. “And if it came down to it, then one would say to the other: ‘Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now, I’m not going to if you don’t approve of it.’”

The couple went so far as to include their pact in their wedding vows. “In our marriage vows, we didn’t say ‘forsaking all others’. We said ‘you will never hear I did something afterwards’. Because if that happens the relationship is destroyed,” Smith said.

Smith said that having lots of sex with each other also helps their marriage.